Getting D.J.’s Truck

Getting D.J.’s Truck

This should be a no brainer but when you buy a camper you also kinda need to make sure you have something to tow it with so you can actually take it to all the places you want to go. I’m embarrassed to admit that thought literally never crossed my mind when I first agreed to buying one. In my defense I think I was still in the mindset of this all just being a dream. When we were on our road trip back home from Idaho this summer, we kept talking about how cool it would be to permanently travel the country in a camper working “remotely”. In my head I was literally thinking of the whole selling all your worldly possessions (including your car), packing up your belongings into a duffel bag, and just hitting the open road in one of those campers that you actually drive. Unfortunately, we’re not in a place in our lives to be doing all of that just yet, so for now we just needed something that we can take with us when we’re ready to pack up and go somewhere over the weekends. Which also means we need to have a vehicle that can tow the camper. Thankfully D.J. always thinks through every single detail and was already on top of this. He loved his Ford Fusion but had been talking about wanting a truck for a while anyways, and was okay with trading it in. We wanted to get something quickly and without all the hassle that comes with buying a car especially during COVID. After looking through all the available options, he bought a Chevy Silverado through Carvana because honestly what could be more convenient than a car vending machine?  

Fun Fact:
I love my vending machines. During my freshman year of college my roommate and I participated in a business concept competition. My childhood dreams of winning a big check someday came true and we came in second place for our idea for an umbrella vending machine, BrellaBox. (Ugh which I just recently found out someone else stole our idea and literally went on Shark Tank with it in 2016, same name and all smh)

Obviously I loved the idea that we’d be getting our truck from a car vending machine. Carvana really does make the whole process that goes into purchasing a car so simple. We buy everything else online these days, why not a car? If you’ve never heard of Carvana or don’t know how the vending machine works, you search online for the car you want to buy, pay for it by either financing through Carvana, financing through another lender, or paying with cash, and then decide if you want it delivered to you or if you want to pick it up. If you pick it up they give you a custom coin that you drop into the coin slot which then activates the vending machine to retrieve your vehicle from the Tower and brings it directly to a delivery bay. Sounds really fun right?! Well, sadly we wouldn’t know. When we went to pick it up the truck was just sitting in the parking lot in front of the building because apparently trucks don’t fit in the vending machine. I mean I get it, but that would honestly be our only complaint. Nowhere along the process did they call out that trucks don’t fit in the vending machines. If we would have known that then you best believe we woulda just had that thing delivered right to us. Oh well, we still got a picture acting like it just came out of the vending machine so please just pretend, thanks!

After we brought the truck home, we made plans with Roger and Venita to come pick up the camper that Sunday. Halloween was that weekend and poor D.J. didn’t even have his new truck for 3 days before somebody (not naming any gnomes) drank a little too much and got sick on the way home from a little get together with friends that Saturday night.

somehow D.J. managed to talk me into buying a brand new sewing machine to make those gnome hats but hey now we have one to make all kinds of things for the camper!

Don’t worry – no hangover was going to stop us from picking up the camper that next morning. When we arrived at Roger and Venita’s house the camper was right there in the front yard waiting for us. We got everything all hooked up (well D.J. did I was literally sitting in the front seat with my head against the window closing my eyes) and then we were on our way back home.  

There were still a few other things that we needed to get taken care of. Roger and Venita signed over the title to us but we had to make a trip out to State Farm to get it registered in Pennsylvania, get a new license plate and pay the PA sales taxes.

We currently live in a townhouse right outside of Pittsburgh and don’t have anywhere in our complex to keep the camper, so right now we have it parked at D.J.’s dad’s house. I am being so serious when I say we would not be able to take on this camper renovation without Don and I am so excited to introduce you all to him in my next post and share some really exciting news that he just received!

Anyone else purchase a vehicle through Carvana and actually get to use the Vending Machine? Send me any videos you have of your own experience!

Have you seen the BrellaBox episode of Shark Tank? Would you have given them a deal?

P.S. if anyone was wondering, D.J. still wears that gnome hat on a regular basis.

Adoption Day!

Adoption Day!

Once we were totally sold on the idea of buying our own camper we went back and forth a bit about what exactly we wanted to buy. We knew we wanted something that fit the two of us comfortably but was also big enough to bring a friend or 2 along with us on trips here and there. It had to be reliable because we are planning on taking this bad boy all over. Like I’m talking Arizona one weekend, Maine the next. Okay that might be a stretch, but I think you get the point. We originally started looking at new campers and scheduled an appointment with Camping World in Apollo to check out what they had. There are lots of different options of campers you can purchase depending on what you’re interested in, but the travel trailers we were looking at ranged from $14,000 – $18,000. We considered taking out a loan together and making monthly payments but the more we thought about it we knew we could get a used camper for much cheaper. We have so much time to spend fixing it up however we want to make it our own.

That’s when we jumped on Facebook Marketplace and started searching. I’ve never actually purchased anything from the Marketplace before, but have definitely browsed. There are so many items that people are just looking to get rid of and you know what they say, one man’s trash is another man’s treasure. I also love the idea that you can do a little bit of creeping on the people selling the items and see where the items are coming from rather than trusting some shady Craigslist ad.

We found a 2005 21′ Sringdale that we really liked and was located in Lake Milton, Ohio. We reached out to the seller and made arrangements to come check it out over the weekend. That Saturday morning we made the hour and a half drive, and as soon as we got there the wife came out and gave us the grand tour. She was so cute and so excited to show us everything that she loved about it. She literally opened every single cabinet to show us how much storage space there was, opened the freezer so we could see how much ice cream could fit in there, turned on every light and the AC, and even had us lay on the beds to see how comfy the mattresses were.  

It was evident they took great care of the camper and were only selling it because they needed something bigger for themselves and their grandkids who lived right next door. You could tell how much she loved their grandchildren (I think she showed us every single picture she had of them in her phone). While we were chatting about family, we also learned that they were foster parents for numerous years – something we really enjoyed getting to talk to them about because we’ve discussed the idea of being foster parents ourselves someday.

There was one Sunday over the summer when D.J. and I were sitting on our back deck streaming church online and we just started talking about having kids someday and what that looked like. Oh my gosh you guys have to admit they would literally be the kindest, sweetest, most loving little humans. They would be the perfect combo of the both of us, can you even imagine the cuteness?! (Please see photos below for reference and you can draw your own conclusion)

We’re both 29 now and will be in our thirties before that’s even a possibility. Everyone knows that women over 35 are at greater risk of complications and if we’re gonna have 4 kids like I want (I’m not sure if I’m kidding about that number or not) we have many different options of what that could look like. Fostering/Adoption is definitely something D.J. and I would love to look into further if the time comes. Adoption already has a very special place on my heart. My dad, Uncle Jeff (my dad’s identical twin brother), and my Aunt Katie were all adopted as babies. I couldn’t even imagine a world where they weren’t here or part of my life. 

We knew making the decision to “adopt” the camper would open the opportunities to create so many new memories with the people we love the most and don’t get to see as often as we’d like because of distance. We let our new friends Roger and Venita know we’d love to take the camper off their hands. They asked us what we wanted to offer and without hesitation we offered the full asking price. I think so often we make decisions out of our own selfishness rather than thinking about the other person. I am seriously such a cheapskate, love a good deal, and am always trying to get things on sale, but we were already paying way less than we originally ever wanted to. We knew that whatever they got from selling this camper they were going to use to buy themselves a new one and were excited to be able to help be part of that.

We wrote them a check, they handed over the title, and October 24, 2020 became our very own Camper Adoption Day. We were excited to hit the road and start our new lives together, but we had one very minor problem. We literally had no way to get it home. At the time, D.J. had a Ford Fusion and I had a Ford Escape, neither of those could tow the trailer. So how the heck did we get this thing home? Stay tuned to find out in the next post! (I’ll give you a little hint: car vending machine)

Have you guys ever purchased anything from Facebook Marketplace before? Let me know what your favorite finds have been, I wanna know what kind of cool things you guys have gotten and what your experience was like.

Would you ever consider adoption or fostering yourself? Were you or someone else you loved adopted? I would love to hear how adoption has impacted your lives!


Meet Swabra. She is a seven year old girl from Uganda that D.J. and I are sponsoring through Compassion International. Through our sponsorship, we are helping to release her from poverty and develop into everything God intends for her to be. If you feel called to sponsor your own child or just want to learn more about the sponsorship be sure to visit https://www.compassion.com/about/about-us.htm.

2020: The Year we Bought a Camper

2020: The Year we Bought a Camper

Omg you guys, hello! So full disclaimer right off the bat, this is my first blog post ever. Being honest, I really don’t even know what I’m doing, BUT I do know that a lot of people have been following along with our camper renovation and figured starting a blog can be a great way to really share more details on the whole process.  

So lemme just back it up real quick and make sure everyone reading this is on the same page. I know I’m not very good at staying in touch (which I’m definitely trying to work on & please hold me accountable) so let me just fill you all in real quick with what I’ve been up to this past year. Back in March when things first started really changing and everything was shutting down because of COVID, I remember being so appreciative for the fact that it was giving me the opportunity to just slow down, get a few things straightened up, and really reflect on what’s actually important to me. I know this has been a difficult year for a lot of people and I pray that they will be seeing God’s blessing in 2021 but for me, 2020 was very good to me.  

I FELL IN LOVE

Last October I got a notification from Facebook to sign up for Facebook Dating. Has anyone heard of it? I swear anytime I tell someone how D.J. and I met no one has any idea what Facebook dating is. Is it even a thing anymore? Anyways, a few days after I downloaded it I had the sweetest message from him commenting on how happy I looked in one of my photos. After messaging for just a few days we decided to meet at Southern Tier Brewery for some pumpkin beer and soft pretzels. I guess you could say that first date went well because just 6 months later I moved in with him! Even though we’ve only been together for a little over a year now, these months quarantining together definitely added a lot more time to our relationship and every single day I feel like the luckiest girl in the world getting to be loved by him. He’s seriously a dream come true and a perfect example of how important it is to know your worth and never settle just because you’re lonely. The wait is so worth it.

I LOST WEIGHT

Last January at work we organized a weight loss challenge which really encouraged you to eat more plant-based foods. So I ended up going back to a vegetarian diet and I swear that’s always the best way for me to lose weight. As of today, I have lost 43 pounds and feel so much better than I did this time last year. I must say D.J. and I have been doing a lot of cooking and can make some good ass dishes. If you have any favorite recipes, please send them our way! 

I PAID OFF ALL MY CREDIT CARD DEBT

I have been able to completely pay off all my credit cards, really pay down my student loans, and I actually have more than $7.43 in my savings account! That never happens. I don’t think I’ve had this much money in there since I worked at Office Depot back in high school and my mom used to make me save 75% of all my paychecks and I used to be so mad at her every pay day. 

I QUIT MY JOB

For the past 2 ½ years I have been working in Human Resources, specifically payroll and benefits. I loved my job but unfortunately it got to the point where I was busting my butt working 50+ hours a week but felt like I was barely staying above water. The perfect opportunity presented itself right after Thanksgiving for me to work 100% remote so I jumped all over. Since then, I’ve enrolled in the first course to get my CEBS certification (Certified Employee Benefit Specialist) so I can learn more about Benefits/Total Compensation while I’m enjoying this slowed down time of my life.  

I GOT CLOSER TO GOD

This whole year I have been leaning into the Lord and trusting the plan he has for my life. I have experienced such peace among all the chaos knowing I am not the one in control, God is. I feel like my eyes have been opened and I’ve been praying to be used as a vessel in whatever way he needs me to help advance his kingdom. I swear my whole life everyone I meet tells me how bubbly I am and how they just love to be in my presence. I know God has given me the gift to be a light in people’s lives. I have been feeling so called and know he has big things in store for me!

WE BOUGHT A CAMPER

Back in June, we ended up taking a cross country road trip out to Idaho to visit D.J.’s sister. The whole trip out there was roughly 33 hours, but we seriously loved every minute of the drive. We stopped in different cities each night (Indianapolis, Indiana; Kansas City, Missouri; Colorado Springs, Colorado; and Rock Springs, Wyoming where I really thought we were going to die but that’s a different story for a different day). Before COVID, I was traveling every single opportunity I got. I was always trying to plan last minute trips in the cheapest way possible, even if that meant selling my plasma (don’t worry I haven’t done that since college). So on our trip home we started brainstorming different ways that we would still be able to travel during COVID and decided to buy a camper. We looked around on Facebook Marketplace for about 2 weeks and found a 21 foot 2005 Springdale Camper. If you check out the “before” pictures below, it really didn’t need any updates and was in great shape. However, we decided that since we have so much extra time on our hands right now, we’re going to work on fixing it up Chip & Joanna style turning it into a whole project and really making it our own. So that’s exactly what we’re doing and where we’re at today. 

I’ll be documenting the entire renovation process on this blog. I plan on breaking down exactly what we did, what products we used, how much time it took us, any issues we ran into, and of course share lots of fun pictures/videos. We did get started with demo back in November so I’ll be working on posting what we have already gotten done so far then will continue to post updates regularly. If you’re interested in receiving an email notification when a new post is made, you can subscribe to the blog by clicking on the follow button below.

I will also be posting on Instagram on the days we will be working on the camper. If you miss them, you can always check out the whole Camper Reno highlight to see anything you may have missed.  You can follow me @hkilar.   

I’m pumped to share this with you all and hope you’re just as excited to follow along our journey!